Question: would you date, marry or spend the rest of your life with you, if you were another person? This answers a lot ( be sincere)

What's that one hubby you have that you think people don't value that much, and maybe you're from an African background that does not appreciate things that may not bring in money/status as real talent should, share with us, you might just find someone with such a passion ✍️🙃

Hey, let's work on something 💯, now for a minute imagine this; there this one thing, just one thing, that you can do to improve your life, mind, relationship, spirit, voice, ideology, mindset, anything positive, and if you do these things, in the next 1 to 3 months you would love your self/life more, whatever it is don't wait till any other date, starts it now, start with whatever you have or know, break a leg, bruise a chin, just control what you can now and focus on the goal, beautiful things take effort! 🤷✍️

📱 FEED POST: The Power of the Silent Observer 🤫🛡️ "The loudest person in the room is rarely the most powerful." In China, success is a game of Reverence + Backbone. Step 1: Show deep respect for the hierarchy. It’s the key to the door. Step 2: Don't be a doormat. Stand firm, be decisive, and never let people "step and go." Step 3: Master the "Personal Win." Let others talk. The more they speak, the more you learn. Silence isn't weakness; it’s an information-gathering tool. 📊 Real talk: If you can't read the room, you can't lead the room. What’s your "Personal Win" story? Have you ever gained an opportunity just by listening? Let’s talk below! 👇 Check out full blog post here https://hafrik.com/posts/20143

Please do not live on second-hand knowledge, (what you hear from people alone) please seek to grow and know more our world needs it, brethren grow beyond the normal 🙏

Picture this, try as much as you can to imagine this! You had just one month to make a significant change in your life that could alter a powerful, beneficial outcome in your education, relationship, finance or skills, what would it be, and how quickly would you start? Guess what, you have such a chance. SELAH 🪷

Scars don't really hurt, validating it's memories do ✍️

The attraction to power or influence, is not necessarily love, check the drive behind that fire 🙂

Self consciousness is one of the biggest flex we could ever develop, mostly as young people (just don't be overly self absorbed 💔 ) and the best way to start or develop this ability is firstly becoming conscious of your sitting position, yeap, as simple as that, other things will follow suit. Basically straightening your spine when sitting. Try this and see its effect over time on your awareness level. Whenever you're sitting down whilst your back is not supported by a chair or anything else, you tend to fold your body forward, so try reminding yourself to straighten your back and sit upright. Let's know what else is a flex, that you may have and you think others may need to acquire also 😮‍💨 #Health #Fashion

Intensity is not intimacy. If someone is talking about marriage before they know your favorite book, or if they love your "eyes" but don't respect your "values," be careful. A real relationship is an Engine that needs constant tuning, not just a Firework that looks bright for five seconds and then disappears. Check out full article here✍️🏄 https://hafrik.com/posts/19897

One thing tells you know immediately that ain't ready for real love, but games with your heart. When you prioritise aesthetics over the goal of a relationship ✍️💔

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You only settle for less, when you are less.🤷🗣️

but because we don't really have a made up mind on some matters, we find ourselves backtracking unto things that once seemed like unnecessary pressure to us 💔. Make your mind up to grow beyond the normal lence of tradition or people's expectations. Are you not worth much more than many sparrows matt6:26

It's crazy how when we listen to people teaching on a negative aspect of humanity, we tend to start picturing other people in that light, we are so protective of our ego that we don't see our faults( at least not immediately) being pointed out, what do you think of this?

It's funny how we can speak so much about a country we've never been to, but once we travel there our opinions just fade 💔🧏🙂

People with high IQ will get this 😂💔

Step out more. Lust, meaningless fantasies and hidden acts strive in silence, secret and dormancy!!

I know you might not be so much into poetry, but at least you have one poetic word or phrase you really like, please share👌💯❤️‍🩹. Mine "You are not a drop of water in an ocean, you're an ocean in a drop of water" By Rumi. I love this one💯