You only settle for less, when you are less.

but because we don't really have a made up mind on some matters, we find ourselves backtracking unto things that once seemed like unnecessary pressure to us .
Make your mind up to grow beyond the normal lence of tradition or people's expectations.
Are you not worth much more than many sparrows matt6:26

It's crazy how when we listen to people teaching on a negative aspect of humanity, we tend to start picturing other people in that light, we are so protective of our ego that we don't see our faults( at least not immediately) being pointed out, what do you think of this?

It's funny how we can speak so much about a country we've never been to, but once we travel there our opinions just fade

People with high IQ will get this

Step out more.
Lust, meaningless fantasies and hidden acts strive in silence, secret and dormancy!!

I know you might not be so much into poetry, but at least you have one poetic word or phrase you really like, please share💯❤️‍🩹.
Mine
"You are not a drop of water in an ocean, you're an ocean in a drop of water" By Rumi.
I love this one💯

Omo this love thing ain't easy oo, only these past 4months I have seen up to 5 different people that are meant for me🤧🤦

Yo, made new friends, it was quite easy making new connections, not just people to talk to, but people with various possible opportunities to offer. With this 3 things you could connect quickly when you meet new people, remember in china, and basically anywhere in the world, to be ahead you need people who know more than you do in such a field or pursuit.
1 - when you say hi/hello ( basically greetings) remember to comment on something they're wearing or something you could highlight about them. eg " hi, good day, I love this blazers though, looking real good" then your name and blah blah blah you go on
2 - make sure you have quality questions planned always, (create a frame work) many people don't have any sort of frame work, they say " just go with the flow" as much as this sounds doable, make sure you have a framework, eg firstly ask where they're from, second, their name, then repeat Thier name twice and up to 4 times in the conversation ( very important).
And lastly but not the least
3 - ask about what they do, and listen like your life depends on it, then you can ask if you could take a picture, (after the whole discussion though) then ask for their WeChat/WhatsApp so you could send it to them, remember you are trying to build a connection, so enjoy the whole thing👋,
Give us some of your guidelines on how to reach out to some new.

"I like girls that wear glasses" so you just like girls that have eye problem?

Some people just want to be loved, and to love.
Some others just want to build a relationship and grow. Which are you?
Building a relationship intentionally comes with love, wanting to be loved may not harbor the intention of building anything.

One thing I learnt that shook me way too vigorously within is this...
"If your life was a movie, and you were watching yourself now, would you be glad about what you're doing, and what would you be doing differently?"
Yeah I nearly cried , nevertheless it pushed me to start reading more, and develop certain skills, and I must say, if we all, mostly young African can ask ourselves just this question, it would make a great change, what do you think???

#Diaspora #Community

I've seen a lot of people with some sort of victim mindset, it's an unknown cover on their head that spans over almost all the activities of their lives without knowing, sometimes they seem to encounter a bit of it, most times flow with it. My question is, how does one know, he or she has such a mindset, seeing that it can be something hidden within us?

#Health

What's the essence of love if not to be expressed? I don't mean excitement, I mean love

Little thoughts in my head, I want to share...
Do you remember those days when some kind of struggles seemed not to go away, or seem to be on some kind of repeat🤦, you begin to wonder is this a test or am I just suffering for no reason . Oh well I believe there's something very important that when you learn it in that situation you not only overcome, but you're strengthened to do better in future challenges, basically it's all some kind of training ground I guess

Hi, come closer, do you know that tapping on the like button doesn't take up to 2 seconds to accomplish 🫠, now ask yourself this - why have I not liked this post yet"¿

Most times, even red flags look like flowers if you view them from a jar filled with roses

I mean, won't you like to make your father a happy man?

True love is when you love their soul more than their body. 💯